Self Absorbed
Way Cool motivation
When you begin to develop personal growth, you begin to notice something. The People will start thinking it's a great person around .. a sort of Obama. Cool those affected, but the cool people too often aware needs of others. They can interact with others who are different from themselves. They value their time and energy. They are often crowned success as well. Moreover, as James Bond, often have a sense of humor you see on Comedy Central. One of my greatest inspirations is the kind of film you like humans. Conscious, rational, compassionate, funny, and always very aware of others.
I think being cool is important for spiritual growth and happiness deep. And I'll explain why in a moment. Indeed, if they are atheists / agnostics, just think of spirituality, consciousness and compassion.
So what it takes to be cool? You have to be very honest with yourself. Notice, I say yourself. This is one of the most misguided advice. You can not be if you do not know. You think you know. But if you have what it was, is likely to have an inflated view of himself who do not want destroyed. This is why many people are nervous of certain people or public speaking.
When you press your comfort zone, face your fears, and get comments from people, you will be able to obtain a better look in the mirror. No! Do not hide that mole. Admit that it is there. Ask yourself why he is there. Leave a microscope and look. Observer and learn the skills necessary to remove if you prefer. Then you really see enough to really "self." If you 's like a lot of people nervous and be yourself in front of others is a challenge. I highly recommend you take a comedy class improvisation in your area. Search Online. There are things on the spiritual as improvisational comedy. First, you must be in the moment. This moment is the ideal of Christian mystics and Zen Masters Second, we must be cheerful, child (pretending) and spontaneous (without knowing what happens next.) All these things are very spiritual. When I joined the improvisation was pushed cool me wrong so quickly because I realized it was frozen and helpless.
Many people, especially very smart people, they refuse to have a problem and say they have a higher form. They plan everything and have expectations in stone. Life does not flow and are deployed for more magic. They cut the river of the spontaneity of life! Psychologically, they have a superiority complex. I know because I am one of those very smart people … Well … and have a superiority complex, but I'm working on it right? " Anyway, one of the biggest relief of my life was to discover that I'm not really intelligent. All That thought and knowledge and the idealization of myself that this person was causing me to have expectations super-perfectionist to the point where I was a bit obsessive compulsive.
You know what these people become? Absorbed. They are so caught up in problems that seem selfish and not very relatable. Are demanding compulsive and neurotic, and, therefore, have little to contribute to life, happiness or survival. Other people avoid following. But they are powerful, for all knowledge and certainty. And to some extent, maybe they do solve some problems of life using their intelligence, why they feel justified.
Go give advice to others (projection of his own pain to others), frustrated with others, and rarely find faults of their own. Because they are so smart and perfect, there should be nothing wrong with themselves and others bad with others and the world. Therefore, victims often feel. Nerds love to discuss the logic and reason, for its elegance is its perceived hello. That is all they have in this world. It's a bit sad.
Through painful experiences, I finally wakes up and wonder where to be so clever all the time to really get me? I can be an extreme case, but see my warning that most people that in some measure, and it really hurts their lives. As I am recovering, he became acceptable to admit that I really fear or helplessness, or erroneous as a person average in some aspects. Even now rather say that if I was still Messier that the average person. Being cool is honesty. The truth will set you free!
Honesty is not to be hard on yourself. When they feel frustrated or not, believe me, if it is on, are not quite smart enough to know what really happens to you, others, or situation given. For a given situation, there are thousands of prospects and details never see.
If psychologists, spiritual teachers, and scientists can analyze your exact situation, I'm sure I could write a mountain of books detailing the real reasons for their plight. And I'm sure it will shock you that much of their concerns have nothing to do with reality. Even if they do, you will see the situation as clearly, it is not only compassion and understanding. So how? After all, you do not have a team Expert to help treat hundreds of points of view.
But you know what I can cope with hundreds of leads and details in a moment? His heart. Your intuition is on the right side of the brain and is able to collect thousands of sequences of logic in a graphical abstract beautiful as your mind can understand in a flash of genius! So just drop all their expectations, frustrations and ideals, and let your heart to work for you. His small left-brain logic is not designed to address these issues. Is made only for complete details and pass on what the right brain has been resolved.
You know what they say a picture is worth a thousand words? Your right brain is the observer, listener, and engineering solver. By therefore tend to be more observant of reality rather than create your own. What really happens? Why feels this way? Learning to think and be curious. Ask yourself why. Look and listen. And then wait in patience and remain calm. Chill out …
So to summarize: Be honest with yourself, live timing and maintain calm.
So when you become cooler, what is? Eh well as the best man I knew … let me tell you. It's very funny … but I realized that I write these lines, I wear a black leather jacket with a patch of hair – no joke! I feel like I'm about to make a musical Grease. Well, back to the question. First, the cool people they know of great value. Not only think they are valuable and desperately clinging to delusions. No need to prove something to others, because their happiness is so overwhelming that it is from within.
This overflow is well enough to share with others. And as they do not seek other people happy or worry that others think of them, are free to be assigned to others. That people look carefully and understand how they feel. This means they are socially setting – watching the speech of another body, clothing, tone of voice and listen carefully. They are, in part because they want to know how to make others happy too!
They use their time carefully and to associate with people who know the business with a level high compliance. They have fun and hang around those who are positive and fun, because they know they deserve positive emotions. They avoid situations where they are abused or who have a lot of drama.
Instead of filling your head with happy thoughts and get rid of negative thoughts lingering power of the brain. Accordingly, you will realize that they are mostly calm and slow, like James Bond. This is because small problems are not taken into account and big problems are solved with patience and grace. The secret is to use more intuitive (heart), which is much more powerful and effective than overanalyzing.
This frees you to be able spontaneous. Therefore, living in the moment and enjoy life. Be spontaneous, which can reach solutions much more creative and realistic the problems of life. Spontaneous, they are also more fun, and you're free to linger on your subconscious. They are like children watch and play. Add to that trust, and you have a recipe for serious jokes.
Fun, positive, caring for others? No wonder People love them and think they have great charisma! But let me remind you that if you're really good, no matter what others think. You'll be so glad you until you feel better than winning the American mistress, or with a crowd of naked women throwing pickles at you while you stand atop a pyramid wearing a costume sun god … I think that is my fantasy … and Val Kilmer, apparently. Like the true genius. Watch and find the difference between nerd and cool.
One of the main characters is very nice nerd. At least that is humble and vulnerable. "He shouted at one point in the film. Thus, it is much cooler than many people who try to be considered cool or cool by others. By hanging around his friend crazy and free spirited, which is on track to gain real strength. So it can be really cool that people think are cool.
I also like Paul Rudd in I Love You man. He has a way of making too but at least he is honest and aware. He admits himself that he is lame and moves in the sense of humor. He and his friend to move ahead with maturity and compassion, I admire. And I think that makes it both very cool.
Here's a surprise for you if you crash the box. Many people can not even Hollywood costs if you wish. How many of them are still trapped in the image? They may know what is right and what feels, and not even know not how to grow from within. They are able to borrow the image of expensive corporate America and its elite circles Social who know. So if you could be famous cold or colder than, what is even more reason to give up their standards and expectations AIDS Media.
Therefore, putting aside their own knowledge and have high expectations for self and others. They begin to listen and observe rather than think and defend. Be vulnerable move forward with grace and openness. Life will teach you! Cool is spiritual. Cool is happy. Be cool and prosper!
I had the chance to meet some of the nicest people learn more from them. Some of them broke down and analyzed how they got where they are. Then he shared with me that the teachers and friends. And fortunately for you, my nerd side fulfills its mission to bring these experiences in a 5 mini e-book pages. But! If you really want to be cool, the best way, as for the language is immersion. Not cool more by reading about it. Drag people think they are fresher and happier than you. And with this kind of improvisation damn!
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