Control Freak
What are the ways to decrease my control freak tendencies?
One of my personality traits that really do not want to accept me Also, I practice and suggestions for each day of things I can do to learn to be less control. I know you'll always have these tendencies, but I would be more sensitive to others and less authoritarian. I hope that makes sense. Thank you.
It depends on your situation daily. If you have any What kind of management position who has to push people a lot of things quickly and efficiently. Time becomes important and it seems easier to learn to control others. If you treat people in a controlled manner at all times, then you are right to want to change it. I am a man on the end of reception control abnormal behavior. Sounds like it should be easy to counter and can be something that people get used a. But I find most increasingly difficult to accept. Is it humiliating and degrading to have another think they can control everything about you – including emotions, thoughts, impulses, feelings, values, sensibilities. The worst thing that becomes reflexive, totally normal. The control freak as soon believe that their thoughts and feelings and preferences better than you. I find now that the effect became seriously. I feel that I am deprived of the essential to be a human being – the right to discover and express who I am by myself. I feel suffocated by this behavior. Even if I understand correctly or may recontsruct how a person became a control freak, what matters is the effect on another person. Part of the significance of maturation is more demanding and understanding of the effect of his actions and the actions of others. A control freak is stealing someone else on the right, the gift, the miracle of self-discovery – which is not a perfect science. This is where the sensitivity and patience comes in. Since the discovery self and self-expression are not perfect – but even this can be annoying that children often are – the real love, genuine affection for others, it becomes crucial to speak, and yet also make mistakes, to embarrass and so on. A control freak can become a selfish, because they are woefully denied again, the place, your place in this complex, however, shared world. I think the best way influence the tendency is to immediately obtain control freak position of the other. Try to imagine if they were deprived of their right to control others, to tell others what they are and what they should do or should do? Imagine if it was you that was controlled micro? And imagine if you do not agree with his perception of himself or what they wanted? How someone else expresses the importance Pulse first time that spring from the heart? You can not. They are like the rays of the sun. They are like the dew fresh light on top leaves in the morning light. They are like young horses dance, running, kicking and chewing. They are like moonbeams that nobody can take and nobody can say. For another time that has passed a rope over them, then a flange, then a little and start telling your mystery – start your chest saying: "It is that what you are is what you think … "Well it's not the end of what we all know the daily routine is the true meaning of freedom? That's the real "Constitution" regardless of what was written in a textbook. But there is more at stake The potential of the relationship to be creative, to come and go, to amplify each other in something greater than the sum of its parts is doomed to failure when a control freak halt the trend of the relationship and stop the flow of life in another medium in the world, the world they see with their own eyes and feel with their own little river of blood. It takes courage to let others be themselves, unusual value, as it takes rare courage of self. Of course, this may jeopardize their own power, position, a sense of superiority. But the fact is that being on the end of receipt of these trends is very humiliating and aggravating enough to end the phenomenon of command does more harm than good. This is the unique perspective which can offer you. I can not bear to be controlled by others, to be told what I think and feel, when in fact, my thoughts and my emotions have a daily flow to them and nobody can know. I have to find every day. If you really embrace the deep pit where the sensitivity of other single source – often with the unconscious naivete – I think it will be easier to see than actually listen to others and try to look into what they really are, life suddenly takes a new and essential between the self and others. At that time, but we need always be vigilant, there is a feeling that one can count more or less control. No responsibility can be equated to "control". To be strong is to let the other children of their precious and often all too short breath of life. Is an art major share of the game What is at stake is the quality of breathing. When shared can not be measured. That's when joy becomes real. I am very grateful for your question and I thank you for the opportunity to address them. B. Lyon
Copeland – Control Freak
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